Oct 23, 2009

Thriving through the rest of the ox year

By Mastery Academy

Time sure flies, even in this plodding Earth Ox year! We're already almost in the last quarter of this Chinese Solar Year and initial plans are already afoot to welcome the upcoming Metal Tiger year from the perspective of astrology and changing Feng Shui energies. The Earth Ox year has certainly been a challenging and confusing year for many. Alas, the reality is that we still need to face the remainder of the next four months; so let's revisit some key reminders (mostly based on simple 5 element deductions) on how we can make the best of the next 4 months or so.

The Earth Ox year is best visualized by a pile of cold, stacking earth. Hardly a picture of growth, rosy health or clarity in thought! The excess of the earth element is difficult for most of us in terms of BaZi; even those whose favourable element is earth have likely found this a challenging year. The year has brought with it the danger of disease, natural disasters and slow growth in the world economy. While most of us can't really expect to achieve successful fruition of our endeavours this year, nonetheless we should think long term. This is a good year to start new endeavours andinitiate new ideas and goals. The earth allows us to "germinate" and "seed" new projects and take a new direction in life.

However, as plants take time to grow, we should also guard against having too high expectations of quick success and achievement. In fact, if you haven't already discovered by now, longer term visions, goals and plans work much better this year than endeavours that thrive on rapid turnover and quick results-this is a good way to work with the earth element. Also, any endeavour that involves the wood element such as teaching, designing, agriculture- most of anything that involves growth and creativity-- will thrive. A dose of creativity in any endeavour will ease any blockage or obstacle that we encounter.

As fire energy is outwardly weak this year, using the qualities of fire will also help. The fire element will warm-up the cold earth, making it slightly easier to manage. So, we should stay passionate and joyful. Look for and do things that make you happy. Stay happy! As the Ox (being a graveyard animal sign) also makes us more contemplative and inward, this provides a great opportunity to explore spirituality, or perhaps even religion (since these belong to the fire element). Invest in self-cultivation and study. Look for ways to improve your life and its current circumstances, to the extent of maybe even taking a new direction if such a time has arrived!

The excess earth not only makes us contemplative but also blurs communication while causing excessive stress and worry. This is especially so with charts that already have an excess of metal and water. In addition, those with excess earth will also feel pressured and misunderstood; even to the extent of being paranoid and suspicious. As one key benefit of understanding astrology is taking stock of what is happening internally, those afflicted with such excess earth should always look at the brighter side of things and acknowledge that most of one's fear, suspicion and negative thinking this year can be mostly or perhaps even entirely baseless. As the Earth Ox is hardly conducive for clear communication, it is better to be open, clear and forthright when communicating since the chance for miscommunication is already so high.

Lastly, we need to be continuously mindful of health as the Ox has brought increased health risks and higher mortality rates. We should observe good personal hygiene, take precaution of health risks (such as H1N1), eat healthy, and also get adequate exercise and sleep. To stay psychologically healthy, we also need to be physically healthy!


Toh Kong Eu
MA Instructor

Oct 6, 2009

30-9-09 - Bye Bye Legal Ah Long



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Its official! We have settled our first home loan with Standard Chartered Bank and today is history.

Finally. We are elated. We are floating in euphoria, literally.

To celebrate our release, hubby and i patted each other's back and yamseng-ed teh tarik at Nainas mamak nearby our house.

We cheered to our record time in finishing the loan in just 12 years instead of 30 years. We cheered to all of our hard work and perseverance paid off. We cheered to our decisions on no-LouisVutton-for-now. We cheered to our choice on traveling everything low-fare and low-budget. We cheered to our decision to postpone wedding to 6 years later. We cheered to our decision to defer ownership of our desired Period-8 home 7 years later. We cheered to our reluctance but still serviced someone else's house with a non-refundable sum of RM76,800. We cheered to our prudentially guided lifestyle. And lastly, we unanimously cheered to ourselves for truly owning a piece of mid-end condominium in the heart of Kuala Lumpur to our names rightfully and legally.......haaaaaaaaaah.......what a blast......

And now, we are getting ready to be bombarded with our first pot of gold in real hard cash by end of November. Life is certainly rewarding to those, that meant us, who'd slaved with two to three jobs at a time for more than 10 years. Yeh!

Sep 25, 2009

Cycle 24# day 24 - Anxious

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Again, its the period of the cycle where i have to suspend in anxiety; always conscious of the dates on the calendar; always touching my own breasts to feel the remaining mild tenderness and to kid myself saying "it could be the work of progesterone; staying alert to all little tiny-weenee signs that might suggests an early pregnancy.

Sep 14, 2009

Cycle 24 # Day 14 - Ovulation Day

Hailing from Medan....

Took 2 days off and followed Dino dad on a business trip to Medan. Why? Because he has to go on this trip and we have to keep to our baby-making schedule.

Can't miss even a single chance. All the signs showing i am 'damn fertile' this cycle; putting on weight; double-chin peeking even at the slightest laugh; great water-retention and growing breast pains started few days back - a another first "Breast pain symptoms prior ovulation".

We checked in Swiss Belhotel at 8am (Indon time) and after giving his face a quite wash, Dino dad left for his marathon appointments while i slow slow unpack and check emails. To my sweet surprise, i saw both my nipples were engorsed like they would after conception!! I have never never in my past 23 cycles witnessed my nipples to be this large prior to ovulation. At most, this symptom was obvious during the last 3-4 days prior menstruation. Both breasts now feel heavy.

I certainly hope its an indicative sign that my fertility hit high notes and that i am ovulating and my egg or eggs (haha...wishing for twins) to roll pass my fallopian tubes like any other women!!!!! I hope my intensive treatment would push its maximum power.

Even my master noded in agreement that i WILL GET PREGNANT THIS CYCLE!! Gah yaoooo...

Sep 2, 2009

Cycle 24 # Day 29 - Failed again






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Aug 27, 2009

Cycle 24 # Day 24 - First Intensive Treatment

27 August 2009, lunar day 8 of July.

As prescribed, i faithfully took my first course of intensive treatment just now while my heart was praying fervently "please, please, please let this month be the month...please...."

Everyone around me ceaselessly reminding to take it easy. My silent responses were and has always been consistently be: How? I want to, but can you, if you were in my shoe? Excuse me, am i the one trying to get pregnant or you? Says who?

Two days back, one of my client had even called to break the good news that she had held back since last month, as if we were in phantom competition to conceive. Her urine test showed positive and she is ecstatic, naturally. Who wouldn't? I would - for sure to bet MYR100k on my rapturous expression on the day my urine test shows a '+'. You'd sure win. But i am grievously ashamed of a fleeting glee in my heart when she said she is still experiencing spotting. After i hung up the phone, i quickly repent and asked for Buddha to willed me power to cleanse my bad mind before i go nutty Emoticons

Sigh.... has TTC made me a cruel person? I'm afraid the answer is beginning to be obvious. Gosh! how can i? I must be happy for others, yet, i can't find the strength to be truly happy for them.

Let's just hope this treatment can speed up its potency Emoticons